Anybody want a brother in law?????

09-22-2006, 04:34 PM

he sounds like an damn ol turkey-ass to me!!! sometimes men are such selfish jerks!! i don't know what to tell you to do except pay for the survey or better yet tell him if he wants the well so damn bad HE can pay for the survey!!!

rivermom · 09-22-2006, 05:49 PM

Try to think of it this way. Once all the issues with the well/survey, etc are done, he wont be able to continue to hound you. It will be his own living hell he lives in knowing he can't torment you anymore. And YOU will be happy that his b.s is behind you. You will win in this entire situation. The good guys always do!

Mandy · 09-23-2006, 12:39 AM

YUK! He does sound like a right ********!!!! It won't be long anymore now, just think when it's all behind you, he can't do anything to you anymore!
Hang in there girl, we are here for you.

Janet · 09-23-2006, 03:08 AM

I am so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else. Why would a man want to treat his brothers wife in such a fashion. As much as I would hate to get it done, I would do what is needed to get him out of your life.

I am puzzled why a survey would cost $1500. We had to have a property line survey done and it was only around $250 or $350. I would check with your local surveyor and make sure that the well isn't on YOUR property. He may already have it on file when the property was divided up. Most times a fence is erected INSIDE the property line, not right on the line itself. I hope for all he's putting you through that he ends up in the wrong. I'm wishing you all the best in this situation.

khardy57 · 09-23-2006, 06:28 AM

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Originally Posted by Janet

I am so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else. Why would a man want to treat his brothers wife in such a fashion. As much as I would hate to get it done, I would do what is needed to get him out of your life.

I am puzzled why a survey would cost $1500. We had to have a property line survey done and it was only around $250 or $350. I would check with your local surveyor and make sure that the well isn't on YOUR property. He may already have it on file when the property was divided up. Most times a fence is erected INSIDE the property line, not right on the line itself. I hope for all he's putting you through that he ends up in the wrong. I'm wishing you all the best in this situation.

There hasn't been a survey on this property since the early 60's and all the metal pins are gone (2 guesses who pulled them up). Because my husband's estate still isn't settled, there has to be a "full" survey which costs more.

Thanks everyone for all your kind words. I'll be OK in the long run, I'm just really stressed out right now because every time I try to settle something, my husband's brother comes up with some BS why it can't be done.

Janet · 09-23-2006, 07:03 AM

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Originally Posted by khardy57

There hasn't been a survey on this property since the early 60's and all the metal pins are gone (2 guesses who pulled them up). Because my husband's estate still isn't settled, there has to be a "full" survey which costs more.

Thanks everyone for all your kind words. I'll be OK in the long run, I'm just really stressed out right now because every time I try to settle something, my husband's brother comes up with some BS why it can't be done.

I just hate that he is doing this to you. If you don't mind me asking...how does he find out what you're trying to get settled? I would make sure I don't say anything to anyone about what you're doing or need to do. If you're talking with professionals, (surveyor, lawyer, etc) make sure they know they are not to say anything....there is client confidentiality). Wish I could come and help you kick his a$$!! (or there close to it!!!)

khardy57 · 09-26-2006, 03:56 PM

Well, so far so good. The surveyor went out today and said that ALL the property line markers had been removed! (Just like I said) He also said the well IS on my property and I'm set to close on the sale of my house Tursday if everything goes as planned. Keep your fingers crossed! The sooner this is done the sooner I can cut ties with my husband's family and then maybe I can sleep at night. My BIL is telling people that I cussed out the real estate company (not true) and that I won't be able to sell the house because he owns the pasture in front of it.

Well, the guy buying it doesn't care about the pasture and loves the house. I told my real estate agent to keep this quiet and not put a sign out that it's under contract. She knows the situation and agreed. My BIL is going to s*** bricks when he finds out it's sold

I can only hope it gives him hemorrhoids!!!

09-22-2006, 05:49 PM	#2
rivermom Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Tontitown, Arkansas Posts: 2,475	Try to think of it this way. Once all the issues with the well/survey, etc are done, he wont be able to continue to hound you. It will be his own living hell he lives in knowing he can't torment you anymore. And YOU will be happy that his b.s is behind you. You will win in this entire situation. The good guys always do! __________________ ~_/> , /\/\ ,,, Sheryl When I grow up I want to be a horse whisperer!

09-23-2006, 12:39 AM	#3
Mandy Donating 4WT 4000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Who cares! Posts: 4,587	YUK! He does sound like a right ******!!!! It won't be long anymore now, just think when it's all behind you, he can't do anything to you anymore! Hang in there girl, we are here for you. __________________ Many people will walk in and out your life, but only true friends leave footprints!**

09-23-2006, 03:08 AM	#4
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	I am so sorry you are having to deal with this on top of everything else. Why would a man want to treat his brothers wife in such a fashion. As much as I would hate to get it done, I would do what is needed to get him out of your life. I am puzzled why a survey would cost $1500. We had to have a property line survey done and it was only around $250 or $350. I would check with your local surveyor and make sure that the well isn't on YOUR property. He may already have it on file when the property was divided up. Most times a fence is erected INSIDE the property line, not right on the line itself. I hope for all he's putting you through that he ends up in the wrong. I'm wishing you all the best in this situation. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

09-22-2006, 04:34 PM	#1
ice queen Guest Posts: n/a	he sounds like an damn ol turkey-ass to me!!! sometimes men are such selfish jerks!! i don't know what to tell you to do except pay for the survey or better yet tell him if he wants the well so damn bad HE can pay for the survey!!!

09-26-2006, 03:56 PM	#7
khardy57 Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 278	Well, so far so good. The surveyor went out today and said that ALL the property line markers had been removed! (Just like I said) He also said the well IS on my property and I'm set to close on the sale of my house Tursday if everything goes as planned. Keep your fingers crossed! The sooner this is done the sooner I can cut ties with my husband's family and then maybe I can sleep at night. My BIL is telling people that I cussed out the real estate company (not true) and that I won't be able to sell the house because he owns the pasture in front of it. Well, the guy buying it doesn't care about the pasture and loves the house. I told my real estate agent to keep this quiet and not put a sign out that it's under contract. She knows the situation and agreed. My BIL is going to s*** bricks when he finds out it's sold I can only hope it gives him hemorrhoids!!!

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