May lose job!!!

[Janet]

I just received a phone call from the Assist. Principal. She said she received a lengthy email and wanted me to read it so she wanted my email address. I'm expecting it any time now.

I guess it's started and now I just can't quit crying. I'm so upset with myself for not being more tolerant and professional in dealing with her, but it's very hard!.

[Necee419]

Originally Posted by Janet

I just received a phone call from the Assist. Principal. She said she received a lengthy email and wanted me to read it so she wanted my email address. I'm expecting it any time now.

I guess it's started and now I just can't quit crying. I'm so upset with myself for not being more tolerant and professional in dealing with her, but it's very hard!.

They BETTER NOT go any further with this unless they want a busload of women arriving from all over the U.S. to show up with picket signs.

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Necee419

They BETTER NOT go any further with this unless they want a busload of women arriving from all over the U.S. to show up with picket signs.

You guys are so wonderful to me. God bless you all!!!

I do want to clarify that I thought she was the one that hung up, and I said what I said to my husband. I didn't know it was he who hung up and I said it to her. I would never have done that.

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by Necee419

They BETTER NOT go any further with this unless they want a busload of women arriving from all over the U.S. to show up with picket signs.

DITTO!!!!!!!!! I don't think she wants all us women ganging up on here! I am sure we can be vicious!

[Janet]

I can almost hear the growling of supportive women here at my house, I think she should be afraid!!! LOL

[RLC12345678]

Have you gotten the email yet?! You know we're ALL going to want to know what it says!

[Janet]

No, not yet and the waiting is killing me. She is a very busy woman and said she needed to make the announcements first. I just wish it would hurry and come through. I am shaking sooooo bad.

She did say it was very lengthy and she wouldn't have time to read the whole thing over the phone, that's why she wanted my email address. I sincerely hope she doesn't edit anything, I would rather read the whole thing.

[Necee419]

Here's a thought that just came to me. Would you still have to go through all the channels if you thought the girl's safety was being compromised by this boy? I mean a warning is not enough if you feel the kid is a danger to the girl. Is this something you can use in your defense should you have to justify your actions to the school board?

[magnolia]

Originally Posted by Janet

I can almost hear the growling of supportive women here at my house, I think she should be afraid!!! LOL

Be afraid.......be VERY afraid!!! As the saying goes, hell hath no furry than a woman scorned - and she's scorned you! And in doing so, she has affected us all - we've become such a supportive group in the short time this site has been up if one of us is hurting, we are ALL hurting (and the same if we are happy). Add me to those making the road trip - I'll get my sign painted this evening

I'm sure it'll be okay.... IMO you did the right thing when you handled the boy the way you did. And as far as the phone call.... Don't worry about. She called you at home, which isn't right to begin with, but then proceeded to provoke you AND your husband! She acted inappropriately and if she hadn't, the whole B**** phone thing wouldn't have happened. Her own darn fault if you ask me!

[Janet]

I rec'd the email and boy was it a long one!! When I printed it out, it was almost two pages of typing. She really raked me over the coals, but most of it was from stuff she said her boys said.

I replied to the email with my comments highlighted in red and sent it back to the Assist. Principal. She made some pretty bad accusations and they were not true. I hope in this case that what goes around comes around.

I'll let the Lord handle it from here!

I'm still shaking and now hurt, the non-truths really hurt my feelings. I pray that they know what kind of vindictive person she is and does not take her seriously. They should know me by now.

[Kimberley]

Janet! She IS a b***h!!!! I have to deal with psycho parents, too...including one that WAS a friend. As long as your administrators know about what happened, you should be okay. AFter all, it occurred AFTER school. Don't sweat her. She's got issues and needs to stop being in such denial!!!!!

[magnolia]

Originally Posted by Janet

I just received a phone call from the Assist. Principal. She said she received a lengthy email and wanted me to read it so she wanted my email address. I'm expecting it any time now.

I guess it's started and now I just can't quit crying. I'm so upset with myself for not being more tolerant and professional in dealing with her, but it's very hard!.

View the sharing of the email as a good thing - the AP is wanting to keep you informed so there are no "surprises". She's on your side in this - supporting you 100% and that is so good to see The woman's history has definitely preceeded her in this incident and the AP knows it. I know it is upsetting to you, especially that she provoked you to the point she did on the phone. But - as was previously stated - she had no right to call you at home outside of school hours to harrass you further on the incident.....it is something that should have remained at school with the school officials. When she called you, she invaded your privacy (in my opinion) which left the door open for you to say what you did. I don't blame you for the words spoken - I blame her for stepping over the line and calling you at home. Things will work out - I have nothing but 100% confidence that they will!

Hang in there!