Please help me

[Gina]

Lindsey I agree with Mandy and Dobie on this one.. Here is my two cents..


First of all Kyle has many issues your happy one day and in a rut over something the next argument. Why are you putting up with this behavior ? He should be treating you with respect and love, if he treats you badly now forget about it if you marry him.. Looking from the outside of things and what you post, he has his own issues and most of the times treats you badly. I am sorry but I am speaking to you as if you were my daughter..

You have no reason to be jealous over your ex and his girlfriend, and how they acted is very immature and she sounds like a flootzy, Kyle being it was his house should have told your ex on the side to cut it out. If they were so horny for each other < sorry > they should have left and got a room at a hotel. Not his bedroom , for you share that bed and why would he want someone doing it on his bed...That is disgusting , and I am no prude. Then to boot he makes you find your own way home late at night. I would have told him see ya! and dropped his a**s.

In all honesty Lindsey you should re consider this relationship for no man is worth this aggravation and it may never get better. Your young and still have a life ahead of you.. As the old saying goes and holds true today also .. There are plenty of fish in the sea.....

Think about what most have said and remember we have age and experience.

[judy]

Dear Lindsey,

You're so young and talented and sweet. You work your butt off, and do a great job, you're beautiful, you've traveled and have hopes and dreams - and you do them! I love that about you. The traveling and riding your bike and all.

If you could, take a good look at what more than a few women here say about their happy marriages. They never talk about drama. If you could go through some posts and see how people in good, loving relationships talk and feel about each other, I think it would be really helpful to you.

Kyle is not going to change. If you are 100% happy with the way it is now, then fine. If you're waiting for change, leave.

[Lindsey]

Kyle and I both know that we won't be together forever. He knows full well that I am moving away and he isn't. So it's more just a matter of time than a matter of should we be together or not. It's not going to work out in the long run. I think it's just easier to end it because of me leaving than for me to try to just break up with him now and sit here lonely and miserable for the rest of the year. I do like hanging out with him when I have nothing else to do. He told me today he is mad at me for walking out like that. I said I think we need to both think everything over and have a talk. He asked what I meant and I told him there is just a lot of drama in our relationiship. He said "Just last night. When was the last time before that?" and he always makes it sound like he does everything for me and I have it good with him and blah blah blah.

[judy]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Kyle and I both know that we won't be together forever. He knows full well that I am moving away and he isn't. So it's more just a matter of time than a matter of should we be together or not. It's not going to work out in the long run. I think it's just easier to end it because of me leaving than for me to try to just break up with him now and sit here lonely and miserable for the rest of the year. I do like hanging out with him when I have nothing else to do. He told me today he is mad at me for walking out like that. I said I think we need to both think everything over and have a talk. He asked what I meant and I told him there is just a lot of drama in our relationiship. He said "Just last night. When was the last time before that?" and he always makes it sound like he does everything for me and I have it good with him and blah blah blah.

Well that settles that! Why worry about it anymore? You really don't have to pay attention to his drama at this point. Just be sure who you choose for the next boyfriend, because that might be permanent.

You deserve somebody wonderful. I'm going to pray that you get that.

[HALEY]

Lindsey don't make the same mistake i did, you can get out now, but it's not as easy to leave once you get married and a child is involved, run now!!!

[Marilyn]

Originally Posted by HALEY

Lindsey don't make the same mistake i did, you can get out now, but it's not as easy to leave once you get married and a child is involved, run now!!!

Awesome advice!!!

[Lindsey]

Thanks for the advice Haley. I have never thought I could ever marry Kyle. We are just not that compatible.