Thought it was over!

[Janet]

Originally Posted by magnolia

YEAH!!!! This is a GOOD thing!! I know, it doesn't seem like it to you right now but look at it this way....the Lord has answered ALL our prayers over this matter for you that He would somehow take care of this and He did - the boys are now on another bus and YOU don't have to deal with them OR their mother. And as for what goes around comes around? Well, that might just be as fast as you want it to be. See, her kids are now on another bus so now another bus driver has to deal with them (I know, you don't wish that on any of your bus driver friends) but.....it shouldn't take long before an incident happens on the new bus and then psycho mom will be up to her old tricks, new driver routine. The administrative staff at the school and over transportation will see quickly (I hope) that the pattern is just going to continue and they can't keep changing bus drivers to pacify a "oh poor me, my kids never do wrong" mom so....the way I see it, mom is working herself fast into being the chauffer of her kids to school cause they are going to be kicked off the bus! God blessed you by removing this ugliness from your life - be happy, celebrate - don't get worked up over it cause she isn't worth a worry line on your face! See the good in it, I do! And don't sweat the diet thing - none of us are perfect and we "blow" things all the time, whether it's diets or money - just start back tomorrow like you said.

Sending you lots of hugs and prayers - you are going to be fine because of who you are

Thank you, I appreciate your post so much. I know my prayers have been answered as far as them being taken off the bus. But what bothers me is the bus they will be riding, that bus driver is one that doesn't really care. She doesn't write her students up for bad behavior, unless it's a fight. She may move them to a front seat, but not often. So it's going to look bad on me if she doesn't follow through with discipline on her bus, plus they will be so good for a month or two. The other thing that bothers me is she is still sending emails to the Assist. Principal. I don't know what they say, but it must have been pretty bad for them to move them to another bus, when the A. P. said she didn't think it was a good idea or the thing to do. Then they move them. I didn't sleep much last night, and I had so many plans on getting some things done today and now, well, I just don't care. We are suppose to go out for supper tonight, but I don't care about that either. I know I shouldn't let it get me so far down, but it has and I don't know how to get over it. Maybe in a few days, I'll feel better, but right now, I just don't care. I just want to go back to bed and sleep the weekend away.

[Amber_lv]

I'm so sorry Janet i wish there was something i could do to help you. But atleast they are gone and you can have some peace and as far as ww is concerned it's ok to slip here and there we know you are doing great!

[Janet]

I've really felt like a total whiner on here lately. Mom's health is not the greatest, but she's a go-getter, her accident which scared me to death, my mother-in-law is going downhill a little faster now, they think the cancer has spread to her brain, then this incident with the bus, and just when I think it's over and can move on, she sends more emails. I'm tired. I've just very tired.

[Amber_lv]

Originally Posted by Janet

I've really felt like a total whiner on here lately. Mom's health is not the greatest, but she's a go-getter, her accident which scared me to death, my mother-in-law is going downhill a little faster now, they think the cancer has spread to her brain, then this incident with the bus, and just when I think it's over and can move on, she sends more emails. I'm tired. I've just very tired.

Aww Janet i'm so sorry your going through so much i can't even imagine the strain on you. I just want you to know i am here for you whenever and if you need to call someone just pm me and we'll exchange #'s.

[Janet]

Originally Posted by Amber_lv

Aww Janet i'm so sorry your going through so much i can't even imagine the strain on you. I just want you to know i am here for you whenever and if you need to call someone just pm me and we'll exchange #'s.

Thanks Amber, I really need to quit thinking and posting about it. It is always in my head and I can't seem to get rid of it. I don't want to "get even" with her, but I would like her to know that I do know what she is doing. I wish I could tell her the truth that the A. P. called her the "B" word, so she'd know, it's not just me, knowing how she is, but the whole dang school.

[Amber_lv]

well posting helps you vent and venting is good for you so if you need to keep posting. I know i hate when someone thinks i was the only one and it actually was everyone but you are being the bigger person here.

[Tink]

{{{Janet}}}

I wonder if the reason the boys were moved to a different bus is just to get their bulldog of a mother to loosen her grip on this issue and finally let it end. If any of what she's accused you of was believed, it would have been YOU removed instead of the boys; so I really doubt anyone is taking her seriously. But you can bet they're sick of having to deal with her!

WIth kids that ill-behaved, it's only a matter of time before there's another episode since they seem to have gotten by with it this time. When that happens, people will see just where the problem lies.

Karma will come around and bite them on the butt.