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09-30-2008, 07:21 AM
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Im not much older but Id never go back to that age either! aaahh I love the security of self that comes with maturity! I stopped being jealous YEARS ago and its because I think Im a GREAT catch! (not to sound cocky, cuz Im really not cocky!) If a guy wants to cheat on me, its totally his loss. So I really don't have a jealous bone in me. It feels soo good to have gotten to a point where Im mentally secure of who I am and what I have to offer! woohoo
 Also to date guys mature enough to not be jealous over petty things like that as well. Nothing turns me off about a guy as much as jealousy. Its such an ugly trait. I won't be controlled and miss experiences over a guys jealousy! Lindsay - good for you for keeping the friends you want and doing what you want. Hanging out with Dan as a friend is not disrespectful. You could tell Kyle EVERYTHING you did last night without feeling shame or guilt. The only time you might be doing something wrong is when you cannot tell your partner, then you might think of how you would feel if the roles were reversed. ya know? I'm also glad to hear you are going to rebuild back up your circle of friends again! Its so important to have some good friends.
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09-30-2008, 08:08 AM
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09-30-2008, 08:14 AM
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 I've been burnt badly... put 10 years of my life into a guy who walked away and left me to sell our house, cancel our wedding, took the ring. I realized that 10 years with someone does not mean a lifetime and a ring does not mean a promise of marriage and forever. Any experience that I didn't get because I was with him is MY loss solely. He doesn't care. He held me back and then when he wanted out he left and I had to clean up the mess that I was. So now I do what I want, when I want, with who I want and don't look back. Im a good trustworthy, honest person. Any guy dating me has to be able to trust me and not control me, which means no jealousy! In return he gets his freedom to do as he pleases without me breathing down his throat.
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10-06-2008, 09:34 AM
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If i were you, i would dump kyle and start dating Dan, if you can talk that easily with him all night long girl, i would hold on to that one and not let him go !!!
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