If you could go back, would you marry your husband again?

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Originally Posted by Marilyn

Well, wasn't sure I even wanted to read this thread, but finally did. After 32 years, I have to say, yes, I would marry him. We too have had ups and downs, but he's still my very best friend, and he is definitely the one I want to grow old with. I don't know what I would do if anything every happened to him. I know I would keep busy, but I can't imagine being without him. We share everything. We usually talk at least 2 or 3 times during the day while we are working. Cell phones are a wonderful invention. Our home office has a long counter with two computer stations. He's clicking away playing hearts right now. In a minute, he's going to ask me what all the typing is about.

I don't mean to make anyone who is not in such a good relationship feel bad, but I really do love this man, and he loves me just as much. He convinced me that $1,800 was not too much to pay for my precious little yorkie, Zoe. So you know he's special.

Yes, definitely, yes in a heartbeat. I'd do it all over again. But I would be an even better wife, less selfish in the early years.

He just ask about the typing. If I'm not careful, he's going to notice the tears in my eyes.

Gotta go.

Marilyn, that is the nicest thing I've heard in a very long time! Me still being in my early years of marriage, may I ask you a question?? You said you would be a better wife and less selfish in the early years if you could do it again. What do you mean by that? If you feel comfortable, would you share? I would love to take some marriage tips from you and try to not make the same mistakes.