Dating update

gja1000 · 11-09-2008, 09:01 AM

Now, why did you decline the date on Tuesday instead of the weekend???

judy · 11-09-2008, 09:32 AM

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Originally Posted by gja1000

Now, why did you decline the date on Tuesday instead of the weekend???

Good question! For two reasons - First, he let me know this on Thursday or Friday, which screwed up making (nonexistent) Sunday plans. The second reason is because it made me feel like I just wasn't that important. I had plans with him, found a place, and he's now too busy. I don't think it presents who you are well to cancel the first date, unless it's an emergency.

Janet · 11-09-2008, 01:39 PM

You go girl!!! You have in mind what type of person you would like in your life and you're not taking anything less. I so admire how you're going about this.

Gina · 11-09-2008, 06:02 PM

Man it is a jungle out there.. You will find the right one soon.. I am rooting for you!

gja1000 · 11-09-2008, 06:40 PM

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Originally Posted by judy

Good question! For two reasons - First, he let me know this on Thursday or Friday, which screwed up making (nonexistent) Sunday plans. The second reason is because it made me feel like I just wasn't that important. I had plans with him, found a place, and he's now too busy. I don't think it presents who you are well to cancel the first date, unless it's an emergency.

You know, that makes perfect sense!!!

Marilyn · 11-09-2008, 07:25 PM

Wow, Judy. I can't imagine what it would be like to be trying to find a nice guy to meet. Your standards have to be very high. Keep us posted. This is very interesting!!

Taurus Babe · 11-09-2008, 09:51 PM

One of my BF's is on EHarmony, and man it's a whirlwind dating scene for her. I know what it's been like for her weeding through all the 'fish' out there. I think you are very right to set your standards and stick with it. No need to beat around the bush or make excuses for anyone when you're trying to find someone you are truely compatible with. GOOD LUCK to you. The right person will come along! I'm glad you don't take anyone's crap!

2tiredmom · 11-10-2008, 05:44 AM

Judy,

Just one day at a time. I'm sure with the Holiday's coming up Mr Right just hasn't had time to get in touch with you. It will happen. Keep us posted. Love to
read the responses.

Janet · 11-10-2008, 09:34 AM

Good things come to those who wait Judy....can you imagine the "hunk of burning love" you're going to end up with.....WOW!!!!

11-09-2008, 09:01 AM	#1
gja1000 Donating 4WT Yakker Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Central Texas Posts: 5,717	Now, why did you decline the date on Tuesday instead of the weekend??? __________________ Gayle

11-09-2008, 01:39 PM	#3
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	You go girl!!! You have in mind what type of person you would like in your life and you're not taking anything less. I so admire how you're going about this. __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

11-09-2008, 07:25 PM	#6
Marilyn Donating 4WT 2000 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: South Texas Posts: 4,907	Wow, Judy. I can't imagine what it would be like to be trying to find a nice guy to meet. Your standards have to be very high. Keep us posted. This is very interesting!! __________________ Marilyn If anyone would like a free Bible Study CD or book entitled "Searching for Truth", PM me with your mailing address and I'll send you one. "And you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free." John 8:32

11-09-2008, 09:51 PM	#7
Taurus Babe Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Canada Posts: 668	One of my BF's is on EHarmony, and man it's a whirlwind dating scene for her. I know what it's been like for her weeding through all the 'fish' out there. I think you are very right to set your standards and stick with it. No need to beat around the bush or make excuses for anyone when you're trying to find someone you are truely compatible with. GOOD LUCK to you. The right person will come along! I'm glad you don't take anyone's crap! __________________ Taurus Babe aka Thorsmomma

11-10-2008, 05:44 AM	#8
2tiredmom Senior Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Indiana Posts: 1,367	Judy, Just one day at a time. I'm sure with the Holiday's coming up Mr Right just hasn't had time to get in touch with you. It will happen. Keep us posted. Love to read the responses. __________________ The real measure of a woman's wealth is what she has invested in eternity. Linda aka 2tiredmom

11-09-2008, 06:02 PM	#4
Gina Donating 4WT 500 Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 6,025	Man it is a jungle out there.. You will find the right one soon.. I am rooting for you!

11-10-2008, 09:34 AM	#9
Janet Moderator Donating 4WT 18K Club Member Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: INDIANA Posts: 21,625	Good things come to those who wait Judy....can you imagine the "hunk of burning love" you're going to end up with.....WOW!!!! __________________ To every thing there is a season, and a time to every purpose under the heaven. ECCLESIASTES 3:1

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