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09-07-2006, 02:45 PM
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hmmm...when I want to do something, I just go out and do it. When I don't want to do something, I don't. This kind of relationship has worked well in my marriage. But, I'm married to someone that is layed back.
How much of your life are you suppose to sacrifice? You need to do something that YOU want to do for once. JMO |
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09-09-2006, 11:40 AM
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if you want to stay home, stay home. But if you want to do something else, I think you need to do it. In my marriage, I make my own choices and so does he. Can't imagine waiting around for him to decide it's time for me to do something different with my life.
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09-09-2006, 11:50 AM
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I agree 100%. I don't mind discussing things with my hubby, but ultimately, I make my own decisions. I like being home, but I don't want to be stuck here. If I decide I want to do something I do it. I will never be under anyone's thumb!! 
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09-09-2006, 12:03 PM
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Make sure you have your own life, and make your own decisions!! Go out and do things, even if you just go into town and treat yourself to a cup of coffee or meet other people.
Communicate with him, and let him know you are your own person, he probably has no clue how your feeling. Men need to be told these things  Good luck!
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