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Old 10-11-2006, 02:55 PM   #1
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With all my marriages none of us went to pre-marriage counseling. I think the first two marriages we should have though, LOL.

But then again...I'm glad those didn't work out cuz then I wouldn't have the love of my life now.

I am all for counseling as long as you don't get physco info from your counsler. I've gone to some (after marriage) and WOW, THEY were the one's who needed help.

I recall one of my ex's going into counseling cuz well let's just say "he needed Viagra!". The counsler told him to have an affair as it would "jazz things up a bit".

Now c'mon people, and we paid this moron for this type of info? Good Lord, help that man!!
He should have been reported to the medical board...what kind of creepos are out there giving advice!!!
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Old 10-11-2006, 03:01 PM   #2
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He should have been reported to the medical board...what kind of creepos are out there giving advice!!!
No kidding! It turned out he just didn't like sex. Now how the hell can one not like sex? It just baffles me really. It's amazing we ever had two kids together really.
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Old 10-11-2006, 03:03 PM   #3
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No kidding! It turned out he just didn't like sex. Now how the hell can one not like sex? It just baffles me really. It's amazing we ever had two kids together really.

Well now....that's a whole other story....I personally hate it myself...just another damn mess to clean up!!!
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Well now....that's a whole other story....I personally hate it myself...just another damn mess to clean up!!!

Ok...time to begin a new thread!!!
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Old 10-11-2006, 03:07 PM   #5
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LMAO......
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Old 10-11-2006, 04:10 PM   #6
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Now I know the story behind the sex thread!!

We went to one counseling session...it was required by the minister who married us. He told us he thought we were very compatible and he was happy to marry us. We tried to pay him for his service and he refused the payment!
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Yes, we went to pre-marital counselling. The church would not marry us if we didnt attend ... now after being together for 20 years, it's kinda strange sitting there answering questions and filling in questionairs about each other, but it gave us a good laugh though LOL

Even our minister (female) laughed, she said, she has to make us do it and she had to make a few "home visits" she was cool, and had a great sense of humor!
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Well now....that's a whole other story....I personally hate it myself...just another damn mess to clean up!!!
i know this was an old post but I feel the same way. I personally could care less if I ever came across it again
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Old 04-08-2007, 12:31 PM   #9
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You girls have been with the wrong guys. It's been a long time but I remember.
Just something to shock my daughters.
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You girls have been with the wrong guys. It's been a long time but I remember.
Just something to shock my daughters.
Yikes! Am I going to have to get Janet to keep you in line too??
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LMAO!!! You girls crack me up!! ROFLMAO!!
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You girls have been with the wrong guys. It's been a long time but I remember.
Just something to shock my daughters.
MOM!!! We all know you are a virgin. The stork brought all of us to you.

Edited to add~all 5 of us
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MOM!!! We all know you are a virgin. The stork brought all of us to you.

Edited to add~all 5 of us
hahaha!!
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