Repairing a Friendship

[magnolia]

Originally Posted by Willow

Thanks ladies. I just find it hard to cut people out of my life. She has said in a letter that she didn't want anymore contact with me and I have been honoring that but I have since found out that the way things ended have bothered her too. I guess I have just been waiting to see if she would try to contact me.

And maybe she's sitting there waiting for you to contact her. If you feel in your heart it's the right thing to do, then give her a call. As I said earlier, if nothing more comes of it, then you can feel good about your attempt to repair the friendship. The friend I mentioned above - she and I are slowly working our way back to being friends. But it's been too many years and too many changes in our lives so it's a struggle. We may go days or weeks without calling or emailing one another but compared to the past where we went years without speaking, this is progress for us. Whatever decision you make, know that you are in my thoughts and prayers