My best friend's wedding

[judy]

Originally Posted by Blueyes

Maybe you could at least get out of going to the shower from the grooms side. They should understand that is a lot of extra expense for you. Just explain the situation to the bride..she probably hasn't even thought about how much time and money this is taking from you!

I third that idea. I'm sure she will understand. You are a wonderful maid of honor, and a good friend. Jessie's maid of honor was just terrible. She didn't do a thing, and they are still good friends.

I love that your whole town gets involved in a wedding. That is lovely.

How about not worrying about the money, and just enjoying the experience of being at your friend's side. As long as your bills are paid, and you can still go to Europe, it's only money.

I went to Europe in my twenties with my first husband, and I totally agree that you should go while you're young. I will never forget that trip, and the things I saw and did. We couldn't really afford it either, but here I am, still fine!