Repairing a Friendship

[rivermom]

Letting go of a long time friendship is like going through a divorce. Not only is it painful, the other emotions that follow are at times extreamely difficult.

One of my friendships of over twenty years is recently over. It's been so horribly difficult and I do miss her. But...right now I feel it's best that we are apart for many reasons.

Friendships like marriages take work. They can never be taken advantage of or ignored.

I hope everything works out with you and the choices you make regarding your girlfriend. I personally can relate to what you are going through and realize how difficult this is on you. I don't really have much advise for you but do want you to know that if you follow your heart I bet you will know what is best for the two of you.