so awkward...

[Mandy]

Oh girl, i'm sorry i didnt know it was this bad!!

Speak to your BF about it this weekend, tell him how you feel and all that's bothering you.
The things your "friend" is doing to you, is not very nice of her!!
Quite honestly, i think your friend and room mate are disgusting!!

Have a safe drive, take your time, and when you get there, go have a nice long hot bubble bath.

[Lindsey]

Thanks for the reply. I'm still up, and showered, and soon to get ready for school. She always manages to leave in the morning without having to confront me, so I hope this morning she feels bad when she sees the giant bags under my red eyes and knows I might not make it to see my boyfriend tonight, cutting me down to only seeing him one day for the next two weeks.
I have talked to my boyfriend about her, and what happened between them isn't something he wants to remember either, and he feels bad when I dwell on it. We didn't even know each other then, and he was pretty drunk on new years eve, and rebounding from a girl who cheated on him for two years. My friend I guess just tries to make it seem like it was way more.
And I'm going to have to agree with the disgusting part. I can't stand people who just have sex for fun and have no attachment to each other. I hate that they assume that just because I know about them, it's okay for them to do it every night and not worry about being discreet at all.

if she is messing up your sleep and you can't do well in school pootie on her....sounds like she is being an inconsiderate bitch. personally i would record them going at it and play it real loud in class and embarrass the s*** out of her.....maybe she'll learn and sweetheart don't fret over what your boyfriend did with her in the past. he is with you now and tht is obviously where he wants to be so just let it slide...hopefully you will have a good night's sleep tonight and maybe you and your man ought to howl and moan all night in her damn ear so she gets the damn point-plus more love for you to help you go to sleep!!!

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Thanks for the reply. I'm still up, and showered, and soon to get ready for school. She always manages to leave in the morning without having to confront me, so I hope this morning she feels bad when she sees the giant bags under my red eyes and knows I might not make it to see my boyfriend tonight, cutting me down to only seeing him one day for the next two weeks.
I have talked to my boyfriend about her, and what happened between them isn't something he wants to remember either, and he feels bad when I dwell on it. We didn't even know each other then, and he was pretty drunk on new years eve, and rebounding from a girl who cheated on him for two years. My friend I guess just tries to make it seem like it was way more.
And I'm going to have to agree with the disgusting part. I can't stand people who just have sex for fun and have no attachment to each other. I hate that they assume that just because I know about them, it's okay for them to do it every night and not worry about being discreet at all.

Definatly don't allow yourself to dwell on the past, it's quite obvious that sleeping around is no big deal for her!
She probably makes it sound to you that it was a lot more, because that's what she wished it was!!

You have him now, and he's yours for good

[Lindsey]

You guys have made me feel so much better. Hopefully next week will be a different story. When she got up this morning she seemed really concerned and I told her the only hour of sleep I got all night was before she got here, and she wouldn't stop apologizing. She said she told my roommate to go to her house but he kept saying no, they'll be quiet here, and she told him she promised me she wouldn't come. But he won out because her car was only parked a block from here and she told him she knew I was gonna kill her. I guess that shows she understands it bothers me, but maybe just doesn't care as much as she cares about getting laid.
I went to first class today and another friend turned around and told me "You look TERRIBLE." so I told him I only had one hour of sleep. I asked why and the girl was like "Oh her dog kept her up all night"
After first class there was no point in being there, I didn't understand a thing that was going on, so I told her I was going home to sleep and she was like "I'll get your notes for you, it's the least i can do"... but she left right after I did.
I did catch up on 6 hours of sleep though, and I'm gonna go put something cold on my eyes so the puffiness goes down, and now that i'm in a better mood, hopefully i'll look better and feel better for the rest of the weekend!

[Mandy]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

You guys have made me feel so much better. Hopefully next week will be a different story. When she got up this morning she seemed really concerned and I told her the only hour of sleep I got all night was before she got here, and she wouldn't stop apologizing. She said she told my roommate to go to her house but he kept saying no, they'll be quiet here, and she told him she promised me she wouldn't come. But he won out because her car was only parked a block from here and she told him she knew I was gonna kill her. I guess that shows she understands it bothers me, but maybe just doesn't care as much as she cares about getting laid.
I went to first class today and another friend turned around and told me "You look TERRIBLE." so I told him I only had one hour of sleep. I asked why and the girl was like "Oh her dog kept her up all night"
After first class there was no point in being there, I didn't understand a thing that was going on, so I told her I was going home to sleep and she was like "I'll get your notes for you, it's the least i can do"... but she left right after I did.
I did catch up on 6 hours of sleep though, and I'm gonna go put something cold on my eyes so the puffiness goes down, and now that i'm in a better mood, hopefully i'll look better and feel better for the rest of the weekend!

Good for you!!!
Now if they start this crap again next week, tell him & her to go to HER house, they can wake the neighbours up there as far as you are concerned, but you need your sleep

[Lindsey]

Finally I got through! My friend and I spent some time together this weekend and she would not stop apologizing and begging me not to be mad at her, saying she would do anything. So I said okay, thinking I'll just see how this goes. Last night my roommate slept here, and she didn't come over. She told me today that he was begging her yesterday to come over and she told him "If you want anything from me, you can come here. I promised Lindsey I wouldn't go there anymore, and she might be just a roommate to you, but she's the only girlfriend I have here and I don't want to mess that up!"
I also let her know how much it hurt me when she used to talk about being with my boyfriend, and she apologized for that, too. She said she's so happy for us, and she's glad that she was part of bringing us together. If she knew the future at the time she was with him, she said she wouldn't have touched him.
Soooo I guess she's a better friend than I gave her credit for last week. I guess I'm kind of happy to have her back

[RLC12345678]

Originally Posted by Lindsey

Finally I got through! My friend and I spent some time together this weekend and she would not stop apologizing and begging me not to be mad at her, saying she would do anything. So I said okay, thinking I'll just see how this goes. Last night my roommate slept here, and she didn't come over. She told me today that he was begging her yesterday to come over and she told him "If you want anything from me, you can come here. I promised Lindsey I wouldn't go there anymore, and she might be just a roommate to you, but she's the only girlfriend I have here and I don't want to mess that up!"
I also let her know how much it hurt me when she used to talk about being with my boyfriend, and she apologized for that, too. She said she's so happy for us, and she's glad that she was part of bringing us together. If she knew the future at the time she was with him, she said she wouldn't have touched him.
Soooo I guess she's a better friend than I gave her credit for last week. I guess I'm kind of happy to have her back

I'm so happy to hear that she is finally respecting your feelings. She honestly probably just didn't know how you felt about the situation until you spoke with her about it. Now that she knows that you were upset, she is trying to correct her wrongdoings. Hope things continue to get better.