I really appreciate all your advice and kind words. You all all so kind, I wish I would had you when I was in the middle of that mess. Like I said, it's good to have have some one to talk too, I never knew what the right thing to do was. SOOOOOOO...I just followed my heart.
I guess I didn't explain things very good. I am no longer in contact with the "friend". She did call me alot during the affair. Trying to talk me into letting him leave with her. However he really didn't want to go with her. Like I mentioned before. All he wanted was his cake and eat it too.
I found out from her husband. He called to tell me that she had told him "she was in love with my husband and they were going to move in together". I called my husband ( We will call him "D"). And he confirmed that information. I ask him to come home so we could talk about it. And we did. WOW!
He told me the whole story. How it started, (been going on for 1 mo. at that time).
I took some time to think and decided that I wasn't going to let her win. It was quite a 6 mo. struggle. I threw him out and begged him to stay all most every day. She would call me and leave terrible messages some times 15-20 messages a day. The messages show what a crazy women she had become. Someone I had never knew. I could tell you ladies something’s that she did you would never believe.
One example before I knew about the affair, she called me call me at work wanted to come take me out for lunch. She showed up late and we rushed through the lunch. What really happen that day..... She had sex with "D", took me to lunch , went back to have sex with "D". then when her husband came home had sex with him and after all that, she and her husband had dinner with us. Now that's what I call a good dependable friend..
I could go on and on with stories like that. but what I'm really trying to do is move on. Of course we have had to change our phone numbers 5 times. It didn't take long until the affair became a "fatal attraction" situation. But by March is was finally over. It took the 2 of us to fight her off of us and out of out life. The last time she tried to call him and sent him a text message we forwarded those on to her husband’s cell phone.. that was 2 mos. ago. We are working very had to get through this. We have talked about canceling but don think we will go that route just yet. Things are getting better. We sold out house and moved away from them. But before we did that they bought a home 5 miles from us back in Dec. 05 she was already planning her future with "D" at that time. LOL 5 times he was suppose to leave me and 5 times he left her holding her bags. She was a good persuader, but never good enough I guess.
10-17-2006, 11:52 AM
Hybrid Mode
