This forum is a sign from the universe!!

So Sorry for your loss Please remember to take care of you during this time of grief and pain ,be extra good to you and reclaim the very core of yourself that may have been intwined with WE"..

[hle_625]

I am very sorry to hear about your divorce. You have found a great place, with lots of women to support you! Things will get better soon!

[ginab]

im sorry also to hear about your divorce,, been there, done that, eight years too.
life goes on.. things will get better i promise.. i was so depressed, but everyday
gets better... think possitive it will get better and you will meet the man of your dreams... it happened to me when i least expected it.

Oh goodness....i am so sorry for your pain...he really said he was through because of your dogs??? what a selfish turd...just my opinion. well you need to get all "did up" and go out and paint the town red (or your favorite color-haha!!) and just have fun and try to put all this out of your mind for a few hours. Maybe if he finds out that you are getting on with your life just fine without him he will come crawling back...it's up to you & your doggies if you want him back....if not kick him to the curb in your new stilettos!!!!

Originally Posted by Miniflash

So Sorry for your loss Please remember to take care of you during this time of grief and pain ,be extra good to you and reclaim the very core of yourself that may have been intwined with WE"..

you are so poetic.....wish i could write like that!

I am so very sorry to hear about the breakup. But I am also so glad that you made your way over here to 4WT. There is a great bunch of ladies here that I'm sure will help you through all this!

Originally Posted by ice queen

you are so poetic.....wish i could write like that!

Aww that was so nice of you to say ,I always think I can't write at all ..funny how that works .Thanks for being so kind~

[Amber_lv]

I'm so sorry you have to go through this and we are here for you!

Thanks all for your supportive words.

I'm trying to think of it as an exciting adventure!

Tho I will be a bit sad cos I'm going to have to go back to dial up interweb! No more streaming video from YT!! OH NO!!

Miniflash thanks for your words especially. It wasn't til you said that that I realised that I do have an awful lot of myself invested in this relationship to reclaim.

Girl power!

That's right GIRL POWER!!! ONE FOR ALL AND ALL FOR ONE!!! Go get you some retail therapy!!!

[Janet]

Retail Therapy....good one!!

Sorry about your break up..life waits for no one, so put your shoulders back, head held hi and greet a whole new and exciting adventure. You have us here to lean on and we'll do our best to understand whatever you may be going through and feeling. Someday.....women will rule!!

[khardy57]

Believe me, there IS life after divorce....and most of the time it's a better one! My first husband was abusive and the best thing I ever did was leave him. I was a single mother for 10 years before I remarried and during those years I did a lot of soul searching and I'm closer to my boys than any mother I know. My oldest son has been married now for 9 years and I get along really well with my daughter-in -law. She told me thanks for raising him the way I did!

[Emmsmom]

I am so sorry to hear you are having such a hard thing. Things can only get better! Take care ((HUGS))

Michelle

[Tink]

I'm sorry for your pain and sense of loss.
I was divorced after a 7 yr marriage. It took time to rebuild, but I promise you will make it!
I have now been married for 21 yrs and had 2 more children and 2 grand daughters too! Life's what happens while we're making plans, so while you may occassionally sink in crap, you will also rise up to new heights again. Hang tough and one day soon you will shock yourself with the sound of your own laughter.