Time for the Nitty Gritty...

[Ponyup]

My husband & I's sex life has actually been good lately. twice already this week & I just ended my monthly visitor on tues. so things are going well.

The problem I have with my hubby is I think I see him too often. When we were dating we were long distance & only saw each other on the weekends. Needless to say most of the weekends were spent in bed.

The one big problem is that my husband is not a very physical person like most men. you know how most men think with or on behalf of their male part 95% of the time or more well my husband uses his actual brain 95% of the time. This is why I fell for him. I have a body most men find desirable & most of my relationships were more physically than mental more times than not. I was so excited to find a man that enjoyed spending time with me & not just in bed. However, now that I know he loves me for my mind I wish he would be more about my body more often, but I know you can't have it both ways.

Also he was not terribly experienced when we met & wasn't really into learning. However, he did fit me perfectly if you know what I mean. I tried to teach him, but I didn't really know what i was doing either. I was used to more experienced men & when they'd do something I liked I'd let them know & then they'd do it again.

However, lately he's either learned what to do as far as foreplay goes or I've lowered my expectations, but things have been really good lately & really enjoyable. Don't ask me what's changed, I don't know, but I do like it.

Sorry so long & so detailed I really enjoy talking about sex. Again don't know why.