What a slap in the face !!!!

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by Janet

I sure will pray for you both! It's hard knowing exactly what direction to go. Has he talked with his boss about this? Never know it might help....nothing ventured, nothing gained.

Yes he did talk to his boss, it's his boss's wife that does the payroll.. the place where he works is like a soap opera, his boss's wife is all pissed off because her Husband (my husbands boss, the owner) was just caught with one of the secretary's. and that's why his wife is getting a million dollar addition on there house, and he also bought her a new Jaguar.. Must me nice, i guess he's kissing her butt so she don't leave him cause she'll get 1/2 the company, that's probably why everyone got a crappy raise.. it all went to the wife this year... its a soap opera... crazy.. i want him out of there... I did have to laugh a little that was a very expensive piece of a**. Hope that secretary was worth it... i guess this stuff happens more often than people think...

[judy]

It sounds like a sitcom! I will be praying that he ends up in the right place.

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by judy

It sounds like a sitcom! I will be praying that he ends up in the right place.

it's to crazy for me, my husband justs laughs he said its not the first time he cheated on his wife and its not going to be the last time. i remember a couple years ago, my husband's boss called for him to get his crew together, (it was like 2 am) to come to the office.. So he left and when he got home, they had to hurry up and patch all the holes in his boss's office and paint it before they opened, i guess again one of the girls he was messing with had a boyfriend and found out about it and come to the office after his boss and they got into a big fight...
soap opera.. oh boy i can tell you story's about his boss.

[DianaB]

Haley, I would have been pretty upset with a raise like that too! That's not hardly even worth mentioning! I had a friend that got a Christmas bonus of $23 and some cents. I would be embarassed giving a bonus like that! If your husband's work place is like a soap opera I wouldn't blame him for wanting to find another job.

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by DianaB

Haley, I would have been pretty upset with a raise like that too! That's not hardly even worth mentioning! I had a friend that got a Christmas bonus of $23 and some cents. I would be embarassed giving a bonus like that! If your husband's work place is like a soap opera I wouldn't blame him for wanting to find another job.

He said he's leaving in March, he's taking the other job he got offered, he said it's about 2.50 more an hour to start.. so i'll be praying that he's not making a mistake by leaving... God will lead him...

[Janet]

I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for him. Hope he finds a better job.

[HALEY]

Originally Posted by Janet

I'll be keeping my fingers crossed for him. Hope he finds a better job.

Thank you, Janet, i been so upset all week cause of this, hopefully this new company he goes with treats him alot better, he said sometime in March there going to call him, this will be a good move i think cause now he'll be in the Iron's worker Union, and his wages will be up to Union rate, and they can't mess with him if they send him out of town like his company does now.
I acually figured out his raise he go 1/2 percent of his wages = .12 cents
and extra .96 cents a day, an extra 4.80 a week after taxes is 2.88.
that is so frustrating, it wasn't even worth the company doing the paperwork..
I have to stop beating myself up about this and move on... God will lead him, better things are waiting for him, you just have to go out and find them...